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Pro ana- Pro mia Support
It all starts with wanting to be beautiful
do you hate me?
H there everyone
I'd just like to gather some opinions on what people
think of me. I am engaged to my girlfriend of half a year (ish) and
I've known for a good while that she is anorexic and she has been very
open about talking about it. She is just good at hiding her bulimic
tendencies so, after finding out as much as i can trolling through pro
ana forums, I decided it would be wise if I help her overcome her ED. I
know she resents me for it but I can't let her slip away from me. Too
many times has it nearly happened and I would just be lost.

I'm not asking for sympathy, just simple judgement. What does pro_ana_pro_mia think of me?

TL:DR I'm trying to fix my gf, do you hate me?
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From: soon_2_b_thin Date: September 18th, 2013 02:42 am (UTC) (Link)
I know this is an old comment but I just had to say something! We don't hate you or at least I don't!!! I think you are doing the right thing!! You are very brave and caring! Just go slow and be patient with her! Don’t force her to get help right away! She has to want help or it won’t work at all! Think about the most scared you have ever been in your life and remember that is what the thought recovery feels like to her! So talk gently about it and often but without any anger or blame! She may fight you but stay strong and clear about what you want and why you want it! All you can do is remind her how much you love her and that you will be there for ever step!

Pro-ana is not anti-recovery! It is just a way to talk about feelings other people won’t understand without judgment or being told it’s wrong to think that way!

Edited at 2013-09-18 02:46 am (UTC)
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